How To Attract A Man
I remember
my first job.
There was this gorgeous
guy working there, the only problem was
I had never talked to him but I knew I wanted
him. Every day I wore my most revealing
clothes, flashed my legs whenever he was
about, caked my face in make up. I did this
for two months without even talking to him
and he didn`t even notice me. Then one day
I thought all my birthdays had come at once.
Here I was standing in the lift with him.
The next thing I did I will never forget
until the day I die. I jumped up at him
and kissed him full blown on the lips. The
poor bloke nearly had a heart attack. I
told him I had been after him for ages but
that he hadn`t even noticed me. He exploded
shouting that he had seen me and thought
that I had been acting like a tart and that
he was married but even if he wasn`t I wouldn`t
stand a chance. Well I slapped him for the
insult, walked out and never returned. This
funny incident taught me a valuable lesson
- just be yourself (Oh and find out if he`s
married).
Here are a
few pointers to keep in mind when trying
to attract a man:
The man has to know
that you exist. Say you have been working
in the same office as the guy for a while
and he hasn`t noticed you - the chances
are he has no interest in you.
Confidence is the number one attraction.
Being more confident with yourself and your
surroundings will attract someone that is
equal to you. You will also notice that
more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also
a big issue. If he sees you when you are
at your worst then he will not want to look
a second time.
Give him a reason
to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance
that sticks to his senses, soft clothes
that he yearns to touch, a smile that he
can't get out of his mind.
Flirt with
him.
Make him feel important.
Listen to what he says, laugh at his jokes
no matter how lama they are, take an interest
in his interests.
Don`t try and be something
you are not. He will be falling for a false
idol and will not want to know you when
he sees the real you.
Be vulnerable.
Let down the armor. Let men do things for
you then thank them for their help.
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