Get
out there and flirt
No matter what
you think, to be a great flirt it's
not necessary to be devastatingly attractive,
rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes.
To master the fine art of flirting, follow
these simple guidelines and you will be
on your way to being the best flirt
in town. You should now be confident enough
to try flirting. If you aren`t go
back and try again.
Give out the
right signals.
Be sure, and this is very important,
that you give out the right signals. If
you are interested in some one enough to
want to take it further then just flirting
then flirt like mad. However if you are
flirting just for the fun of it (and there
is nothing wrong with this and most women
flirt just for fun) make sure that you the
man knows this, and that your body language
ain`t telling him otherwise. Also some men,
in fact most men can be a bit on the slow
side when it comes to reading into what
a women wants, which may mean you might
have to spell it out for him.
Dress for
the eye
If you want someone to approach you it is
much easier if you`re wearing a conversation
starter (i.e. a badge, a crazy wig.) This
will also show that you have a funny side.
If you are trying to attract the attention
of the office hunk wear a bit more make-up
and a skirt that reveals a little bit of
leg, (but not short enough to reveal show
panty`s.)
Feel good about yourself
Positivity is contagious. Feel good about
yourself, about what you wear, about your
hair and others will feel good about you.
Get eye contact
Now some people might take offense if you
stare at them for a long period of time.
Let the guy know you are trying to catch
his eye then when you hold his gaze give
a gentle smile and let your eyes drop to
the floor. He won`t feel intimidated and
he will know that you are interested.
Smile
This shows friendliness and self-confidence,
which is viewed as one of the most attractive
qualities a member of the opposite sex can
have.
Who`s watching
Walk though a group of men and have your
friends watch to see who is checking you
out.
Mingle
Walk about and mingle with people. Get to
know friends of the guy you are trying to
attract. You could even ask them a question
or two about the guy. (But don`t over do
it you don`t want to sound desperate or
to keen.)
Separate yourself from friends
Take time out to be alone for a bit. This
will make you more approachable. Men some
times feel awkward approaching a woman when
she is in a crowd of other women in case
of rejection.
Be polite
If you aren`t interested in a guy, be polite
when you reject him. It takes a lot of courage
to approach someone so be sure you turn
him down in the way that you would appreciate
being turned down.
Have a conversation starter ready
It is know good approaching a man if you
don`t know what you are going to start the
conversation off with. You could start with
a witty line such as "great tie may
I buy it from you when you are finished
with it?" Or you could simply start
with your name, but remember to back it
up. He might be just as nervous as you.
Boost his ego
A little flattery never hurt any body. Men
have always used flattery on women to get
what they want so why can`t we women. This
is one of the best ways of flirting. Boost
that mans ego and you will have him drinking
water from your stilettos. (Yes please.)
If he has gorgeous eyes, great head of hair,
is well groomed, tell him. We like to be
complimented and so do men so go on. Flattery
gets you every where.
Be interested
Ask him lots of open-ended questions. Ask
him his interests, what he does for a living
(but remember a man might think you are
really interested in how much he earns not
what he does.) You may find that you have
a lot in common other then physical attraction.
Make the first move
A lot of men find it attractive when a woman
approaches them and find it easier and more
relaxing to talk openly.
Don`t pretend
Don`t pretend to be something you are not
especially if you would like to see the
guy again. If you lie about your age, don`t
tell him you have kids or even that you
wear a wig. When he finds out the truth
he may decide that he doesn`t want to take
things any further because of the lack of
trust.
And finally
Only give out your real phone number. If
you decide to take things further.
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