Flirting
No, No's
Don't rely on others to make things happen
for you. The only way to get the man you
want is to go out and get him yourself.
Men like women that are confident, women
that will approach them. You aren't in the
playground now, where you would get your
friends to ask the boy from sixth grade
out for you. You are an adult and, if you
don't want to settle for second best, you
have to go out and get your man. Alone,
without help from your friends.
Don't Tease
It is one thing to flirt, but teasing
can land you in trouble. Have fun, clean
fun. If you are interested in a man you
don't need to lead him on and jumping to
the wrong conclusions. Don't offer what
you don't intend to give. The man may become
indignant if you don't give him what you
have been suggesting you might give.
Give Him Room
To Breath
Don't crowd him or cling to him. Don't follow
him around or keep your eye on him. He is
probably out for the same reason as you,
to flirt with all the girls. Instead
back off, play it cool and keep him guessing.
Don't Let
Rejection Get You Down
All of us at one time in our life experience
rejection from the opposite sex. You might
feel a bit down at the time, but you can't
let it hold you back. If we never got rejected
we would all be with the wrong guys. This
may sound strange, but it is true, as we
might have settled with someone without
having set our goals higher.
Don't Fidget
Fidgeting is a sign of nervousness, and
lack of confidence, and can discourage people
from approaching you. Even if you are nervous
hold your posture, and keep your hands and
legs still. Better still get onto the dance
floor and put your hands and legs to good
use.
Don't Get
Drunk
This is the last but the most important.
Being drunk can make a usually ugly guy
seem handsome, and can lead you to give
him your phone number, or worse still, going
back to his place and waking up next to
him in all his unsightly glory. When you
are drunk you also aren't aware of your
surroundings or what is happening and it
can leave you forgetting what took place
the night before, good, or bad. If you have
too much to drink, this is the time you
need your friends. Make sure that they don't
leave without you, and that they see to
it that you get home safely.
Now all that is left
is for you to have a good time, know your
own limits, and flirt away!
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