Ending
a bad date
The
guy that you have fancied for ages has asked
you out on a date and you've spent all day
getting ready. Then when he turns up he
looks like he's been dragged through a bush
backwards and that is just his hair. He
is wearing a tatty t-shirt and an old pair
of jeans while you are all made up. It's
to late to get changed so you leave with
him any way. Where does he take you? Yes
you've got it to your local pub where he
spends have the night talking to his friends
and the other half talking about them. Then
to top it off he takes you for fish and
chips. The whole date was a complete disaster.
He is not the guy you thought he was and
you don`t know why you even fancied him
in the first place.
So
what do you do when it is time to say good
night? How do you avoid the end of the date
kiss? And how do you let him down gently
without being to harsh?
It
is obvious you have no intentions of seeing
him again so don't beat about the bush just
get straight to the point. Sometimes being
nice just doesn't work. Being to nice to
a guy that you have no interest in can lead
to mixed signals giving them the wrong idea
and sometimes unwanted advances.
First
off - thank him for a nice date and explain
that he is not the type of person you are
looking for. If he asks for a second chance
and asks you to go on another date with
him; you must be firm with him. If you don't
want to have any kind of relationship with
the guy then you have to make it quite clear.
Don't
tell him that you want to be friends, unless
you are really serious about being his friend.
If you don't want to see him again make
this very clear and avoid any contact with
him at all. Even giving into a good night
kiss will send out the wrong signals and
that is the last thing you want.
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