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Warning Signs He's Losing Interest
When a relationship ends we tend
to wonder where it went wrong. Were there
any warning signs that he lost interest?
YES.
But you were so wrapped up in the relationship,
or with other things, that you didn't even
see it coming. Here are 10 warning signs
he is no longer interested. Or maybe these
are how you are acting. Either way, it is
time to take a closer look at your relationship
and decide whether you want it or not.
He
hasn't called you for a few days. This isn't
necessarily a sign that it is over, but
if you are accustomed to him calling frequently
then there is something wrong.
Picking
fights. Does he fly off the handle more
than usual? Is he causing arguments over
stupid little things? This is often happens
when people are no longer interested in
a relationship, but they don't want to be
the one to end it. Don't beat about the
bush, ask him outright if he is no longer
interested in the relationship.
Is
secretive. He no longer wants to tell you
where he has been or who was on the phone.
Maybe the phone is off limits to you. He
disappears for hours without an explanation.
He
no longer refers to "we" but "I".
You use to sit and plan your future together.
"We are going to do this, we are going
to do that". Now it is "I am going
to do this". You are no longer included
in his future.
He'd
rather spend time with his friends then
you. You have to fight with his friends
for his attention.
You
no longer talk. Once upon a time you would
sit and have discussions about everything,
from the weather, to what is happening to
the ozone. Now he just answers everything
with yes.
Friends start asking what's wrong.
Friends begin to notice tension or distance
between you.
He's more critical of you.
"That's a horrible dress", yet
he helped you pick it out only a few weeks
ago.
Remember
that theses are only warning signs and may
not mean your relationship is not worth
salvaging. Be sure to talk about it before
you do something you may regret.
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